Rules for no-strings-attached fling!,casual sex,one night stands,sex tips, Rules for no-strings-attached fling

You meet a guy, you're insanely attracted, you start to see each other and have lots of wild crazy SEX....

Then you fall in love and your emotional needs stifle the excitement and replace your abundantly sexy carefree attitude with fear. Fear manifests itself in insecurities as jealousy and all-round out-of-characterbehaviour.

Sometimes we would just like to indulge in a prolonged casual affair with a hot guy, and not have to worry that our hormones are going to take over at some unannounced point and dictate where the relationship goes next. How do you get it to stay right where it is, for as long as you want it to?

Follow these 5 rules for lovers who want to have no-strings sex without the complications, and you shouldn't go far wrong....

Rules for those who have a no-strings-attached fling!

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1: Do not get romantic about casual sex

There is absolutely no point in telling yourself that all you want is to have ongoing casual sex with a guy when you know that deep down you are a hopeless romantic.

You can't suppress your natural instincts, they are just too strong. Casual sex only seems to work if your head is in the right place and your circumstances seem to suit it. Casual sex isn't really the same as having a steamy passionate ongoing affair either, in fact anything that require too much 'attachment' shouldn't be considered as 'casual' – makes sense really.

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2: Be clear about what you want from the beginning

Make sure you know exactly what you want to achieve and why. This is so important.

You need to be able to define exactly what you are doing, and then be able to be clear about your boundaries with your lover so that there are no misunderstandings and you can just focus on enjoying yourselves. Casual sex requires honesty and confidence.

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3: Get the balance right

Too much of a good thing can be addictive. If you get addicted to the sex, to the point of prioritizing it over other things that should be important in your life, then you lose control of a good thing.

The 'good thing' about enjoying a casual sexual relationship with someone is that it enhances your life and enjoyment, not that it takes over. If you don't get the balance right then casual sex can become emotionally dangerous and people will get hurt.

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4: Free your inhibitions

This is your opportunity to explore your sexuality, so don’t be hung up on moral ideals or proper behavior.

A casual fling is the one time you get to have amazing sex and not worry whether it conforms to your standards of behavior in a relationship. One problem with relationships is that the freedom to be you can sometimes be influenced by your understanding of perceived roles within a relationship.

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5: Protect yourself

It goes without saying really that if you are having casual sex then you need to play it safe and make sure you are using the right contraception.

Babies and STI’s are two things likely to deflate the appeal of a casual sex relationship far more quickly than the interference of emotional expectations!



Tricks to Arouse Your Guy QUICKLY!,casual sex,one night stands,sex tips, Rules for no-strings-attached fling

Honestly, your man is already crazy for you, but it's always fun to surprise him and drive him nuts. Not only does it remind him just how H-O-T you are, but it's always a rush to be reminded how much your man wants you too.

Here are five ways to drive him wild with desire.

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1. Give Him a Massage!

And then turn it into this sensual steamy sort of thing! If you're on the couch together, just slip behind him and start rubbing his shoulders. Then you can slowly give him soft little kisses on the back of his neck and take his shirt off! You'll see how your little massage session will turn into you two getting it on in no time!

2. Get a Little Dominatrix!


No guy minds having his girl be in control, especially, if you usually are not that way! Of course you know him well, so you know how far you can go but a blindfold and a little light bondage never hurt anybody! Just saying! No matter if you just grab him by the tie the minute he walks home from work and usher him to the bedroom or actually tie him to something in that very same bedroom - he'll get happy real soon!

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3. Inappropriate Touches!

There's just something totally arousing about acting a bit inappropriately somewhere where you're not supposed to be doing the naughty! Like at a fancy dinner or at a cocktail party or something… Of course you don't want to make it distasteful and you don't want other people to catch you copping a feel! So keep it light but allow yourself a little playtime if you're feeling playful – be sure he'll still be ready to go when you get to somewhere private!

4. Dance Your Way to Getting There!


A little erotic slow dancing goes a long way! If you've got the moves, show him what you can do on the dance floor of a club or at in the privacy of your own bedroom! Itd be more convenient if you do it in the bedroom though, you know, because you'd want to have the bed nearby afterwards…

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5. Dress to the Nines!

Surprise him by getting all fixed up and hot without any special occasion. You can wear tighter clothes, or show off a little more skin than usual, or get some really sexy underwear, or go commando and bend down to pick something up. Do something a bit out of the ordinary and on the sexy side and that should do the trick!


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6. Sweet Nothings in His Ear!

That's the way to get him how you want him --talk and tease. Words are a powerful, often underused, tool when it comes to sexual shenanigans! So next time you're in his arms, make your way to his ear and tell him what you want to do to him, or, what you want him to do to you!

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7. Join Him in the Shower!

You two, naked, water is running, the bathroom is getting steamy – he’ll go with the natural flow! So, pop in, smile mischievously, don't say a word and just kiss him. He'll be stunned at first but he’ll switch to being aroused in a matter of seconds don't worry!

5 Things you should Know About your Man!!,casual sex,one night stands,sex tips, Rules for no-strings-attached fling

The stuff that keeps men happy and free from cheating or committing adultery. Cause honestly, men actually think about it before cheating. They think about their actions and way their decision based on how their current relationship is going. So, we are going to give women five things that they need to know.

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Men are as, or more, emotional than women.  They don’t express it as readily or easily because it isn’t comfortable for them.  Still waters run DEEP.

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Mutually desired sex is VITAL for him to feel emotionally secure, confident and loved.  When she says “No” to sex, he hears, “I don’t want you.”  It hurts.

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It is crucial that a woman NEVER criticize, mock, belittle, tease or insult her man in public or behind his back.  Ideally, she doesn’t do it in private either, but if she must express something negative, she should do so only when no one else, children included, is present. Respect and honor him.

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Taking care of her health, appearance and hygiene tells her man that she cares for and values him.

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He wants to take care of her, provide for her, be romantic with her, but when she bosses him around, questions him and undermines his efforts, he withdraws and feels incompetent.

Why men like porn more than YOU!,casual sex,one night stands,sex tips, Rules for no-strings-attached fling

Men like porn for a lot of reasons. Here are a few that could help you understand his interest in all things naked on his computer screen.

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A man gets to see more boobies

A man can never see enough of them. All breasts may seem like the same for women, but those subtle dissimilarities between one pair and another make the men want to see all of them.

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Men get to learn new things in bed

Most of the time, men watch porn only to satisfy themselves, but every now and then, men watch porn because it's funny or completely unique. It's a fun pastime that men enjoy.

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Masturbation is fun

Almost all men have spent a big part of their single life with the little boy in their pants. And every now and then, he misses the times he's spent with the little guy. Hanging out with his hands in his shorts can at times, even feel a lot better than sex.

There’s no stress, and the fun time can stretch on for hours. And the best part, he gets to see so many naked women while having fun at the same time.

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Men are curious

Every time a man sees an attractive and desirable woman, one of the first things he does is wonder how she looks beneath her clothes. With so much curiosity, it's easy to imagine why men can't wait to see and learn about different women's body parts. And another thing that most men do, each time they see a sexy celebrity on the telly, all they want to do is go online and look for a few nude movie clips of that girl to see how she looks naked.

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